So, earlier
ms_scarletibis posted a
poll on William and Spike's sexiness. I was commenting on said poll, and it highlighted a fact of which I've more or less always been aware: I'm more attracted to Spike's inner Williamness than to his outer Spikeness. By "Williamness," I mean his inner self, his capacity for love, his heart. And by "Spikeness," I mean his outer image, his self-constructed persona of Badass. I admit that he's all hot with his swishy coat and platinum hair and smirky smirk, and dude...that body *wimper*
Where was I? Oh, yeah, Spike is H-O-T, hot. Not denying that, but personally, I've never gone for the hot Bad Boy, and if I ever have found myself attracted to one, it would've been because he was witty or had impeccable manners or something equally less exciting.
Now, don't get me wrong--I like an attractive man as much as the next chick, but just because I find someone attractive, doesn't mean that I'm attracted *to* them. I've always been more attracted to the geeky Nice Guy: funny, intelligent, doting, perhaps a little silly. You get the idea.
Anyway, it got me to thinking about why we all love Spike so much, and if it's his inner or outer self that makes our hearts go thump-thump. And, so, without further ado, I give you my very first poll. So exciting. :-)
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